I don’t know how else to say it: Please bring your littles to church—please, pretty please!

When my parents divorced when I was ten (they separated when I was eight), my world was unstable, uncertain, and unreasonably messy. One thing remained steady: the local church.

Every single week at that little cinderblock church—always under construction—God’s people showed up. They smiled with joy, fed me cookies and Kool-Aid, celebrated with a shiny star on the Bible verse chart when I memorized Scripture, and even let me sing the offertory solo from the hymnal. When life was especially hard, someone always slipped an arm around my shoulders to check in, or to pray with me at the altar. By the end of each Sunday, I was ready to face another week.

And that wasn’t even my first experience with the church.

When I was five, my dad suffered a heart attack and had to be hospitalized far away. While he was recovering, a brown paper bag of groceries quietly appeared on our doorstep each week from a nearby church. When Daddy came home, my parents started taking us to that church and even taught Sunday school for a season. Later, life shifted again, but when my parents dropped me and my brothers off at that little cinderblock church after the divorce, the people of God remained the steady, safe place.

Friends, your littles’ world will be rocked one day. That’s just how life goes.

The church gave me something priceless: the liturgy (a set of forms, words, expressions) of faith in a mighty God who created me and would never leave me. Words for grief and disappointment. Habits for hope. Practices that pointed me to God’s goodness when nothing else felt steady. They taught me to be content in whatever circumstance and how to forgive. Week after week, the family of faith helped me know—deep down—that God is great, God is good, and God is faithful.

As much as you want to be the rock-solid model of faith for your kids—and yes, you are their most important teacher—there will come a day when Mama and Daddy aren’t enough. Who else will they turn to? How will they know the language of prayer, the rhythm of worship, the truth of Scripture, the grounding of contentment, the tools to release bitterness, the repeated practice of God’s grace and forgiveness of self and others, unless the whole church helps build that toolbox with you?

So please, bring your kids to church. Not just for Sunday mornings, but for the gift of relationships that will hold steady when life shakes. Start early. Stay steady.

There’s more for your kids at church beyond edu-tainment. And there’s more for you, too.

I’ll save you a seat.

 “Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for He who promised is faithful. And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.” Hebrews 10:22-25

Mr. Bob and I celebrated our 41st wedding anniversary this year, a few weeks after the actual date, on Hilton Head Island — one of our favorite places in the world. We enjoyed dinner at Charlie’s L’Etoile Verte and soaked up the music at The Jazz Corner, both sweet reminders of our roots in south Louisiana.

We always take two weeks away, because I know myself — it takes at least a week for “the office” to quiet down in my head. By the second week, I finally begin to rest, breathe deeply, and reset. This year’s trip gave me space to step back after a full summer of ministry, a month of school-year calendaring, and the holy work of setting new personal and spiritual priorities for the months ahead.

Vacations are more than time off for me — they are a turning of the page. From one season into the next, I pause with intention and remember: “This is what I prayed for.”

Prayers Answered: I prayed for our whole family to live nearby so that Mr. Bob and I could be available, helpful, and part of our children’s and grandchildren’s stories of faith and life. God has answered that prayer with a resounding YES! I’ve already set aside upcoming time off to line up with school breaks so I can be even more present and available with them.

Ministry Highlights: Ministry outside the church walls takes planning, muscle, and energy. This summer, I was blessed with two high school interns who carried tables, rearranged furniture, jumped into staff meetings, helped lead in worship, and asked all the right questions. They learned the “why” behind the “what,” and I watched holy confidence take root in each of them. Both will continue serving in the fall, though in different ways.

Last summer’s young adult intern is now flourishing on the Women’s Ministry Team, leading a middle school girls’ group, serving as the adult lead for confirmation, and co-leading an Abide Lab on prophetic prayer. Watching these young leaders answer God’s call fills me with excitement for sharing Jesus with neighbors, nations, and the next generation.

Holy Surprises: Not everything this season was weighty and serious. At one of our Driveway Parties, a host offered iced cold brew coffee with half-and-half. This lifelong tea-drinker gave it a try … and now I’m hooked. My daughter calls it “the dark side.” I call it “where has this been all my life?!”

Table Life: Today, I’m back in the office, still debriefing. Our Tuesday staff meeting is offsite this week, which feels like a grace-filled extension of my reset at Hilton Head.

With every new season comes a chance to reflect, recalibrate, and rejoice. I step into this one grateful for 41 years of marriage, the nearness of family, the growth of young leaders, and even the joy of discovering a new tasty beverage in iced cold brew coffee.

“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” Romans 8:28

“The local church has adopted the language of our education system, but not the practices,” Rev. Jeremy Bannister shared at the Discipleship Begins at Home online conference.

Think about it: our schools have clear academic standards, sports teams run regular practices with conditioning, and every extracurricular activity has accountability built in. But when it comes to discipleship — the actual following of Jesus — the same clarity, structure, and measurable growth often isn’t there.

As leaders in the local church, we are called to equip the saints — helping followers of Jesus grow strong and reproduce their faith so that the world is transformed through transformed disciples.

And on the front lines? Parents and grandparents.

They know the goal: for their kids to love Jesus with their whole hearts, for their whole lives. It’s our role as Christian educators to give them tools, developmental benchmarks, and a realistic picture of what it takes.

Here’s the truth we have to tell:

• One hour of Sunday School will never be enough to build a resilient faith for the other 167 hours of the week.
• Most curricula focus on “God made you” and “Jesus loves you” — wonderful truths, but repeated without deeper engagement year after year, they don’t prepare kids to face a loud and angry culture.
• Many parents and grandparents haven’t been discipled themselves with clear standards, commitments, or practices that build spiritual confidence for the long haul.
• Our own discipleship must grow stronger. We need to model holy habits: systematic Bible reading, tithing, serving, having meaningful conversations, asking good questions, and staying rooted in Christian community — not just because our jobs require it.

We must ask ourselves: If every disciple of Jesus was just like me, what would God’s kingdom look like on earth?

Here’s the good news: now is the perfect time to restart.

• Find an accountability partner and begin reading the Bible systematically. Once kids can read chapter books, they can read a chapter of the Bible. Begin with Luke — a clear, narrative account from Dr. Luke’s interviews with eyewitnesses. Use an easy-reader Bible and simply read aloud.
• Explore resources from The Next Generation Ministries — their Discipleship for Life plan gives age-by-age holy habit practices from birth onward. There’s also a 5-year plan for older kids, teens, and adults who want to intentionally start (or restart) their discipleship journey. These are in our Family Resource Center.
• Grow into regular, systematic tithing — prayerfully decide together as a family what that looks like.
• Co-lead a small group Bible study — pairing with someone older, younger, or in a different life stage to grow together in relationships, Scripture, and accountability.
• Offer parents and grandparents clear, doable discipleship metrics — daily Bible reading and prayer, weekly fellowship and giving, monthly service — along with conversation prompts to make faith a natural part of life. Launch it with a Parenting with a Purpose class, then follow up with a simple, “How’s it going?”

So, how is it going? The invitation is here. The tools are ready. The time is now. Let’s equip the saints to grow resilient disciples — at home and in community — who robustly follow Jesus for life.

“So Christ himself gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors and teachers, to equip His people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up.” Ephesians 4:11-12

I believe some of the stickiest faith moments happen at home — in familiar spaces, with familiar faces. Me and all the research. While we may get just one hour a week with the littles if they come to church, the family gets nearly 50 together. That’s why equipping families with simple, meaningful tools (not just another thing to do!) is a big part of our discipleship plan for littles, middles, and talls.

We’ve added a wheeled shelf of goodness to a narrow little hallway — right where families check in and check out for programming. It’s packed with faith-forming resources we’ve already been using behind the scenes, and now we’re rolling them out (literally!) to share.

We do have a fabulous church library and it’s one of the most used spaces on campus. This small family resource center gives families easy access and it’s super convenient.

And as items disappear (yay!), we’ll replace them with fresh, thoughtful tools based on the real-life hallway conversations of what are families talking about.

What’s on the shelf for the beginning of this school year?

Clear signage that items are free to take – I gleaned the design from the fabulous Amber Pike of RenewANation which offers the Family Ministry Academy which I can’t say enough great things about. Their new cohort season begins in October.

“Are My Kids on Track?” by Christian family counselors Sissy Goff and David Thomas
Remember those milestone checklists at the pediatrician? This book is like that—but for hearts and minds, not just height and weight. It’s a go-to guide for raising emotionally, socially, and spiritually healthy kids.

Catechism Books — Faith Q&A for the Whole Family
The word “catechism” means to teach with questions and answers—and Christians have used this method for centuries to pass down the truth of the Christian faith. We’ve stocked two favorites:

• Foundational Truths: A Modern Catechism – Beautiful and accessible for parents, grandparents, and older kids.
• The New City Catechism – Pocket-sized, app-available, and great for on-the-go moments like carpool, waiting rooms, or the sidelines of life. These were gifts to all of our elementary families on Promotion Sunday.

Two Discipleship Blueprints — Because Faith Has a Framework
Our faves from Rev. Jeremy Bannister and The Next Generation Ministries:

• Discipleship Begins at Home: For Littles – A year-by-year guide to nurturing holy habits from birth onward.
• 5-Year Plan: For Teens & Adults – A roadmap for walking alongside your middle & high schoolers (or even yourself!) in Bible reading, prayer, fellowship, service, giving, and more.

“Count Yourself Calm” – A Read-Aloud for Big Feelings
This playfully illustrated book helps children breathe, pray, and reflect on God’s goodness—especially when emotions are high. It’s calming, Christ-centered, and a great resource for mental and spiritual health for everyone.

HomePoint Resource Guides for Families with all ages and stages
These straight-talking, grace-filled resources from D6 I first experienced at Children’s Pastors Conference provide wisdom and encouragement for navigating life’s big transitions through a biblical lens.

As these treasures are taken, we’ll keep replenishing with tools that support whole-family discipleship – body, mind, spirit, and soul. Because the One who made us has a plan for helping us flourish, even in this temporary world.

What does your Family Resource Center look like?

“May he send you help from the sanctuary and grant you support from Zion.” Psalm 20:2