• About Mary “DeDe” Bull Reilly

DeDeBullReilly

~ Just another WordPress.com site

DeDeBullReilly

Monthly Archives: July 2026

Loving Littles Well: Why Preschool Training Matters

21 Tuesday Jul 2026

Posted by DeDe Bull Reilly in Uncategorized

≈ Leave a comment

July is one of my favorite months—not because of the Georgia heat (definitely not!), but because it kicks off weekday preschool training season.

Across our state of Georgia, the Georgia Preschool Association co-sponsors district training events where early childhood educators gather to learn, encourage one another, and sharpen their skills. Today I’m headed to Griffin First Baptist Church to teach two workshops for District 6 under the leadership of my friend and colleague, the fabulous Diane Lamb.

But here’s something I wish more churches knew: These trainings aren’t just for weekday preschool teachers.

Maybe you rock babies in the nursery once a month.

Maybe you teach three-year-olds on Sunday mornings.

Maybe you’re Mimi, Nana, or Papa and spend a couple of days each week with your grandchildren.

These trainings are for you, too.

You’ll learn what is developmentally appropriate, discover how God wonderfully designed little brains to learn, and walk away with practical ideas you can use immediately. Understanding why children do what they do often changes the way we respond to them.

In short, these trainings make the work of loving and leading littles both easier and more meaningful. And that makes ministry—and parenting and grandparenting—a whole lot more joyful.

One challenge I’ve noticed over the years is that each ministry often stays in its own lane.

Churches tend to use church curriculum and church-based training. Weekday preschools tend to use preschool curriculum, if they can find it, and preschool training. Homeschool families often use homeschool curriculum and homeschool conferences.

There’s certainly value in each of those.

But I’ve found that some of the richest ideas happen when we cross those ministry lines.

Throughout my years in family ministry, I intentionally borrowed from each world.

On Sundays we used a traditional Sunday school curriculum. For our midweek Bible study, I often chose Not Consumed, a homeschool curriculum that functions beautifully as a discussion-based Bible study, just like their parents in small group study down the hall. Other midweek programming would include Mark Burrow’s Bible Black Belts.

Likewise, nursery teams, church preschool volunteers, and family caregivers can benefit tremendously from weekday preschool training. Many of the free resources, including Faithful Beginnings, are easily adapted for church settings. It’s incredibly affordable and it’s geographically close.

We’re all helping children know and follow Jesus.

If you live in Georgia, I’d love to encourage church nursery volunteers, preschool teachers, grandparents, and family caregivers to look at the Georgia Preschool Association’s district training opportunities this year. They also offer a fantastic annual conference in the spring.

One date to put on your calendar is Saturday, October 3, 2026. Georgia Preschool Association will host an online training event created specifically for those serving young children and their families in faith-based settings. You can participate right from your own home.

Whether you’re changing diapers, leading circle time, reading Bible stories, or rocking a sleepy toddler in the church nursery, your investment matters.

The younger we begin nurturing faith, the longer we have to watch God grow it.

So let’s keep learning.

Let’s keep growing.

And let’s keep loving our littlest littles to Jesus—together.


“Now then, my children, listen to me; blessed are those who keep my ways.” Proverbs 8:32

Adjusting to a New Normal

14 Tuesday Jul 2026

Posted by DeDe Bull Reilly in Uncategorized

≈ Leave a comment

Retiring from a long commute has made room for one of life’s greatest gifts—more time with our grandchildren and their parents, our favorite people on the planet.

We’ve shared meals, played countless games of checkers, wandered through the Croc store, and made plenty of trips to Tropical Smoothie—or as our youngest grand lovingly calls it, “Tropical Smoovie.” I hope he never outgrows that.

If I’m being truthful, the adjustment has been just that—an adjustment.

For the first time in decades, I haven’t had a color-coded calendar telling me where to be every hour of every day through the next calendar year. As someone who loves planning and scheduling, that has made my eye twitch a little! I’ve had to give myself permission to sleep until I wake up and even enjoy an afternoon nap. For the first three weeks, I slept ten hours a night with a daily nap. Apparently, I was more tired than I realized.

In The Good and Beautiful God, James Bryan Smith writes, “Sleep is a perfect example of the combination of discipline and grace. Sleep is an act of surrender.” I’m learning that surrender isn’t laziness—it’s trust.

I’ve also wrestled with a little FOMO. I miss the day-to-day rhythm of serving the church families I’ve loved so dearly. I’m thankful for Monday morning phone calls with my prayer partner, daily texts from ministry friends, and seafood dinners shared with our husbands. Those friendships remain precious gifts.

And yet…

The wins have been abundant.

Summer has given us longer days, time to read good books, and lunches of Uncrustables, watermelon, and strawberries by the neighborhood pool.

One of my greatest joys has been sitting beside Mr. Bob in worship every Sunday. Singing together. Praying together. Listening to God’s Word together. Grinning at each other when the sermon hits just a little too close to home. After decades of incredible ministry schedules, worshiping side by side feels like a sweet gift from the Lord.

I’ve also been actively purging my ministry library. Two road trips (so far!) with dear friends to McKay’s Used Bookstore in Chattanooga have transformed eight overflowing laundry baskets of books into a manageable church library collection, a few wonderful new fiction authors, and a home that feels a hundred pounds lighter.

Meanwhile, ministry opportunities continue to unfold.

I sponsored an amazing young lady on her Chrysalis Flight last weekend. Chrysalis is part of the Walk to Emmaus community.

Lingering in daily Bible reading, study, and prayer is a time of His tender presence.

Planning for Lifewise Academy is underway, including a meeting with a local principal this week and an August “Lifewise Academy in the Park” gathering for students and families. Georgia currently has 16 Lifewise schools, and we’re praying for 100 over the next three years as we seek to bring Bible education to students during the school day off school property.

Weekday Preschool district workshops begin next week, and our North and South Georgia Global Methodist Church R3 Gathering is already on the calendar for November 5–6, 2026. It’s exciting to continue investing in churches and leaders in this new season.

I’ve read that retirement comes in three stages: Go-Go, Slow-Go, and No-Go. Mr. Bob and I are definitely in the Go-Go stage. A Planet Fitness membership has helped us stay moving, especially through the sweltering “Hot-lanta” summer.

This season looks different than any before it. The Lord is simply giving us new places to serve, new people to love, and new rhythms in which to walk with Him.

So today, I tip my glass of lemonade to friends and colleagues near and far. Now, if you’ll excuse me, it’s time to pick tomatoes from the back porch for dinner.

“Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.” Ephesians 5:1-2

Faithful Beginnings: Little Habits, Big Faith

07 Tuesday Jul 2026

Posted by DeDe Bull Reilly in Uncategorized

≈ Leave a comment

By the time Baby Girl and #1 Son were walking and talking, our home had developed some simple, sacred rhythms.

“God bless you,” after every sneeze.

Prayers before every meal—even when we were eating at our favorite local Shoney’s as loyal Shoney’s Shoppers.

And praying out loud together.

That last one stretched me the most. Speaking prayers aloud didn’t come naturally, but I wanted my children to hear someone they loved talking outloud with Jesus. If they were going to learn what a life of faith looked like, they needed someone to mirror. I did not want to pass along my fear of praying outloud to my littles.

We weren’t ready to become missionaries to Africa…yet.

But God was already preparing us to be missionaries in our own home, in our families, and in the marketplace.

It was the 1980s. Mr. Bob traveled Monday through Friday for work while I served full-time as an assistant vice president of investments at Capital Bank, which later became Sunburst Bank in Baton Rouge. I didn’t want my children to know me only as the mom who rushed home to feed them, bathe them, and put them to bed.

So we made a plan.

We paid off our debt, lived on plenty of peanut butter and jelly sandwiches and macaroni and cheese for a season, and I left my full-time banking career to teach part-time in our church preschool.

Looking back, I can see how God was preparing me not only to raise my own children to love the Lord with their whole hearts for their whole lives, but also to spend a lifetime helping other families do the same.

Author James Fowler describes the faith of children between about 2 years old and 7 years old as the Intuitive-Projective stage of faith. During these years, children begin to understand God through the adults they know and trust. Their earliest picture of God is shaped by the people who love them. Children develop language and imagination. Faith is magical, fluid, and heavily influenced by stories, images, and the examples of adults.

They hear simple Bible stories. They learn songs. They celebrate holidays. They pray familiar prayers. Through repetition and routine, they begin to understand that God is real, loving, and present.

They watch us.

They notice how we treat neighbors, how we respond when we’re frustrated, how we share, forgive, be generous, tell the truth, and show kindness. Faith at this age is more caught than taught, but teaching is still of great importance.

Even everyday lessons—sharing toys, using kind words, waiting patiently, obeying promptly, and treating others with respect—become building blocks for practicing Christlike character.

As I’m spending time with the grands and other littles today, one of my favorite resources for those who lead this age is the free Faithful Beginnings Library from the Georgia Preschool Association. One lesson, “Be Kind to One Another,” gives those who lead and influence toddlers and preschoolers simple, hands-on ways to practice sharing and kindness. For older preschoolers and early elementary children, I also recommend Ordinary Mary’s Extraordinary Deed by Emily Pearson, a delightful story that reinforces how one act of kindness can spread farther than we imagine.

The Faithful Beginnings Library continues to grow thanks to teachers, childcare professionals, churches, grandparents, and families who are serving little ones every day. If you serve in a church nursery, operate an in-home daycare, are a first-year or ten-year classroom teacher in a church preschool, this library of fun activities can provide support to loving littles to Jesus. check it out here.

The resources are free, practical, and designed for the places where faith grows best—at home, at church, and in everyday moments.

After all, the greatest mission training field may just be around your own kitchen table.

“They were to be trained for three years, and after that they were to enter the king’s service.” Daniel 1:5b

Subscribe

  • Entries (RSS)
  • Comments (RSS)

Archives

  • July 2026
  • June 2026
  • May 2026
  • April 2026
  • March 2026
  • February 2026
  • January 2026
  • December 2025
  • November 2025
  • October 2025
  • September 2025
  • August 2025
  • July 2025
  • June 2025
  • May 2025
  • April 2025
  • March 2025
  • February 2025
  • January 2025
  • December 2024
  • November 2024
  • October 2024
  • September 2024
  • August 2024
  • July 2024
  • June 2024
  • May 2024
  • April 2024
  • March 2024
  • February 2024
  • January 2024
  • December 2023
  • November 2023
  • October 2023
  • September 2023
  • August 2023
  • July 2023
  • June 2023
  • May 2023
  • April 2023
  • March 2023
  • February 2023
  • January 2023
  • December 2022
  • November 2022
  • October 2022
  • September 2022
  • August 2022
  • July 2022
  • June 2022
  • May 2022
  • April 2022
  • March 2022
  • February 2022
  • January 2022
  • December 2021
  • November 2021
  • October 2021
  • September 2021
  • August 2021
  • July 2021
  • June 2021
  • May 2021
  • April 2021
  • March 2021
  • February 2021
  • January 2021
  • December 2020
  • November 2020
  • October 2020
  • September 2020
  • August 2020
  • July 2020
  • June 2020
  • May 2020
  • April 2020
  • March 2020
  • February 2020
  • January 2020
  • December 2019
  • November 2019
  • October 2019
  • September 2019
  • August 2019
  • July 2019
  • June 2019
  • May 2019
  • April 2019
  • March 2019
  • February 2019
  • January 2019
  • December 2018
  • November 2018
  • October 2018
  • September 2018
  • August 2018
  • July 2018
  • June 2018
  • May 2018
  • April 2018
  • March 2018
  • February 2018
  • January 2018
  • December 2017
  • November 2017
  • October 2017
  • September 2017
  • August 2017
  • July 2017
  • June 2017
  • May 2017
  • April 2017
  • March 2017
  • February 2017
  • January 2017
  • December 2016
  • November 2016
  • October 2016
  • September 2016
  • August 2016
  • July 2016
  • June 2016
  • May 2016
  • April 2016
  • March 2016
  • February 2016
  • January 2016
  • December 2015
  • November 2015
  • October 2015
  • September 2015
  • August 2015
  • July 2015
  • June 2015
  • May 2015
  • April 2015
  • March 2015
  • February 2015
  • January 2015
  • December 2014
  • November 2014
  • October 2014
  • September 2014
  • August 2014
  • July 2014
  • May 2014
  • April 2014
  • March 2014
  • February 2014
  • January 2014
  • December 2013
  • November 2013
  • October 2013
  • September 2013
  • August 2013
  • July 2013
  • June 2013
  • May 2013
  • April 2013
  • March 2013
  • February 2013
  • January 2013
  • December 2012
  • November 2012
  • October 2012
  • September 2012
  • July 2012
  • June 2012
  • May 2012
  • April 2012
  • March 2012
  • February 2012
  • January 2012
  • December 2011
  • November 2011
  • October 2011
  • September 2011
  • July 2011
  • June 2011
  • May 2011
  • April 2011
  • March 2011
  • February 2011
  • January 2011
  • December 2010

Categories

  • Uncategorized

Meta

  • Create account
  • Log in

Copyright Notice

Copyright 2016 by DeDe Bull Reilly - all rights reserved. This material may be freely copied and distributed subject to inclusion of this copyright notice and our World Wide Web URL http://www.dedebullreilly.wordpress.com

Blog at WordPress.com.

  • Subscribe Subscribed
    • DeDeBullReilly
    • Join 115 other subscribers
    • Already have a WordPress.com account? Log in now.
    • DeDeBullReilly
    • Subscribe Subscribed
    • Sign up
    • Log in
    • Report this content
    • View site in Reader
    • Manage subscriptions
    • Collapse this bar
Loading Comments...